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Before…

15/01/2022 by L.J. Diva Filed Under: Business & Legalities, L.J. Diva's Books, Life - Death - Health, Publishing, Websites & Social Media, Writing

 

Back on January the 1st, this blog turned 13 years old.

 

Unlucky for some, and time for me to cut back, or cut it out.

After the revolting effort 2020 and 2021 put on, I came to the conclusion that in late 2019 I’d hit burnout. And it took me those two years to figure it out.

Don’t mistake that for writer’s block, though, that stupid bitch doesn’t exist.

I had burnout after writing over 1 million words in The Porn Star Brothers family saga, and releasing a book every six months until 2019 when I not only had to write an extra 67 pages for DeLuca, but then write Spiros & Jenny as well. In 2020 it was an overwhelming effort to write the final book, And Always, from April until August, with a September release, no less, run the PSB website, plus this one, and then try and do other things. 

A LOT of other things!

I ground to a mental halt and needed a break.

From EVERYTHING!

In January 2020 I had a brilliant idea for a novel, or two, but pushed that insane inspiration aside to try and focus on writing other stuff, namely that final PSB novel. In January 2021, I still hadn’t even attempted to write those new novels.

Why?

Burnout!

Not that I knew at that time.

I battled on trying to get my hardcovers and large prints done after they were delayed from 2020. They were finally released in March 2021. They, for the most part, were finally done.

In September 2021 I had ANOTHER awesome idea for a novel, but had to put it on the back burner for other things, thus extinguishing the inspiration for it. This novel is something else; it actually made me rub my hands together at all of the twists and turns my brain was coming up with. That has NEVER happened with any other book I’ve written.

And so, after small ideas had been percolating in my brain, simmering away under the surface like a volcano ready to blow, I took time off from the gym, wrapped up a few other things, and wrote copious amounts of notes on WHY it wasn’t working anymore.

Why what wasn’t working?

My writing life, that’s what.

I wrote note upon note, had thought upon thought, and came to the decision to change how I do things moving forward. And then over the last month of 2021 I had more thoughts, and changed things again.

But that means changing EVERYTHING moving forward.

Including at this blog.

 

The choices I’ve made are this…

 

1 – There is no longer a newsletter.

2 – I’m no longer posting to other social media because some of that social media will be closed down.

My Twitter and Pinterest accounts will be closed, but my Instagram account and Facebook page will go silent and private. FOR NOW.

For those who don’t know, L.J. Diva is the adult author pen name of Tiara King. Any posts here will be posted to her/my social media at @tiarakinghq, or on the publishing house’s social media at @royalstarpublishing.

3 – I will no longer be posting at this blog monthly. The only posts throughout the year will be the yearly plan, the half-yearly catch-up, the full yearly catch-up, the yearly Jackie Collins post, any book releases, and Christmas and New Year’s. So when a book is released, there will be book quotes, character lists, cover reveals, header images, etc.

This blog has been happening for thirteen years. It’s time I stepped back and made more time for myself to once again be creative. To once again write what I want, when I want, how I want, and not set myself ridiculous deadlines that I can’t possibly meet. Because that’s been the main problem. I’ve set myself deadlines and have not met them. I’ve spread myself across too many outlets and the inspiration and motivation has disappeared. I’ve written millions of words across three names, multiple genres, stories, non-fictions, stand-alone novels and a family saga that burned me out, and it’s time to go back to “before”. Before having all of this, before doing all of this, before when I wrote with no stress and no publication date.

THAT is what I want to get back to. Regardless of wanting to release something every year on the anniversary of Jackie’s passing, that is a date that will always be a year in the future. If I can start writing “something” on the 1st of October every year, or just write for a full year whatever the hell I want, then there will be “something” released on September 19th for years. It’s just a matter of letting myself write whatever my muse gives me as inspiration.

Getting back to free writing. My way. Not my brain’s way.

 

So that’s it. They are the changes.

 

No more monthly post, and this site simply becomes a website which may get a new logo and a new theme at some point.

Thanks for being here for thirteen years if you have been. Thanks for stopping by to read about my posts on publishing. Thanks for buying my books and the support you gave, even though you have all left. But then again, I did too when I moved on from following and commenting on other people’s blogs and moved from Blogger to WordPress. It has been thirteen years, after all.

It’s time to reduce the weight of work and get back to BEFORE, which is now my word for the year.

See you next blog post.

 

The To-Do List for November 2021

01/11/2021 by L.J. Diva Filed Under: Business & Legalities, Websites & Social Media

Let’s get into what I achieved in October first…

 

– 1 – Get November’s blog post done.

– 2 – Keep posting weird things on social media. 

– 3 – Start reorganising my life and work schedules to be more in sync with each other so I can actually get some books written and take time off.

– 4 – Start writing a novel for release next year!

 

Yep, I have JUST started that novel. I’m going slow and taking my time.

 

SOCIAL MEDIA!

 

I also had a bit of a cull on social media. I culled my Tumblr blog, which was just this one being sent through to Tumblr, my Disqus account, my Youtube channel, so all videos are gone, and I’ve asked for the deletion of my Bloglovin’ account. If it’s not being used frequently, or I’m never there, it’s going.

 

 

Now let’s launch into what I want to get done in November…

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Let’s Get This Done, 2021!

01/02/2021 by L.J. Diva Filed Under: Business & Legalities, L.J. Diva's Books, Publishing, Websites & Social Media, Writing Leave a Comment

 

 

Last year was an absolutely fucked up year, and shit has already been happening this year, personally, BUT, to bring this back around to blogging/writing/publishing, I found that posting monthly was a good fit for me, so I’ll continue doing that this year.

I’ll still be talking about what I’ve done in the last month, and what the plans are for the coming month. Post about the release of the Porn Star Brothers books in hardcover (finally), potential new books, and the odd post about other things, such as the anniversary of Jackie Collins’ death, and anything to do with legalities where writing and publishing is concerned. Or I’ll post something just for the hell of it. There are also some anniversaries coming up this year so I’ll be talking about those things as well.

A lot has already happened, as you’ll soon see. Something I decided in late November 2020 was to close down the Porn Star Brothers book series website to make life easier for myself. And as much as I loved it, and thought it was so freakin’ awesome, again, I needed to make life easier for myself and not have an extra website to upload a whole pile of details to. And also, the series has come to an end with And Always, so it’s not like the website would be added to in the coming years.

To get this party started, let’s launch into February 1st’s post containing what I’ve already done so far this year, and what I hope to get done this month and what I have planned for the year.

Green is for done, orange for in the process of, and black is what is yet to be done.

So let’s get into it.

 

Here’s what I have already achieved in the first month of the 2021…

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Shit to Get Done for March 2020!

01/03/2020 by L.J. Diva Filed Under: Business & Legalities, L.J. Diva's Books, Publishing, Websites & Social Media, Writing Leave a Comment

 

Let’s first get into what I achieved in February from the list of shit to get done…

 

– 1 – Get the proofs of the large print and hardcover versions of all my books.

– 2 – Finish off the character lists I started, thanks to doing them for the Porn Star Brothers series I’ve now spread it across all books, and upload them to the ljdiva.com website.

– 3 – Post weekly to social media.

– 4 – Get March’s blog post done.

– 5 – look into getting a mailing list for my books and setting up a newsletter on the website as looking may be all I can do at this point.

 

As you can see, I did three things on the list and didn’t do two. But then, it was only a list of five things.

I also had many other things that I did, such as doctor’s appointments and bloodwork done, read a lot of books that were not my own. Went through my book boxes and found some old books and I’ve posted them below. Wrote some emails and got the proof of Spiros & Jenny in paperback. Sent my books off to the NLA for legal deposit. I shopped online for caboodles and sassabys, op shopped, tried out my new social media schedule so I certainly achieved that.

And if you want to see the others things I’ve been up to, head over to my style blog, Jewel Divas Style.

 

Okay, so let’s launch into what I want to do in the month of March…

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Let’s Get This Shit Done, 2020!

01/02/2020 by L.J. Diva Filed Under: Business & Legalities, L.J. Diva's Books, Publishing, Websites & Social Media, Writing Leave a Comment

 

Last year I decided to go from posting weekly to posting monthly. It’s a matter of clearing brain clutter and making things better and smoother for my work lifestyle. I don’t have an assistant, so have to do everything myself, and felt that cutting back to once a month was better for my health, both mental and physical.

On the first of every month, there will be a post talking about what I’ve done in the last month, and what the plans are for the coming month. There will be posts talking about the new Porn Star Brothers book that will be coming in September this year, so the usual posts to go with that.

I’ll also post about the new formats for my books. I have large print and dust jacket hardcovers coming this year, so I’ll definitely be posting about those. There will also be the odd post about other things, such as the anniversary of Jackie Collins’ death, and anything to do with legalities where writing and publishing is concerned.

To get this party started, let’s launch into February 1st’s post containing what I have planned for the year, what I’ve already done so far this year, and what I hope to get done this month. The usual mid-year catch-up and end of year catch-up will also happen, but that will be the basic structure of each month’s blog posts from now on. What I’ve done and what I’m going to do. And once again, green is for done, orange for in the process of, and red for not fucking getting done (although that won’t happen until the end of the year).

So let’s get into it.

 

Here’s what I want to achieve, and have already achieved, just in the first month of the 2020.

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And Hello Two Thousand and Bloody Twenty!

01/01/2020 by L.J. Diva Filed Under: Holidays & Festivities, Websites & Social Media Leave a Comment

 

That’s right, this blog is 11, and things will be slowing down a lot this year.

More on that come Feb 1!

 

 

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